Bless the Broken Road

Scrolling through Tiktok lately my feed has been nothing but things from my childhood, shows that I used to watch, songs I used to listen to etc… It’s been making me think back to the good ole days where I had nothing to worry about and just be a kid. So if I had the opportunity to go back and talk to my younger self I would give the following advice listed below:

  • Show yourself the same that you show for the people around you

  • Stop worrying about the future and just live in the moment

  • Start saving now even if its as low as $1 a month, it's going to build the older you get

  • It’s okay to say no, you don’t have to please everyone around you 

  • Take more pictures with your friends and family. Pretty soon it’s all that you’re going to have of them

  • It’s okay to feel the emotions you feel, you don’t have to bottle them up inside

  • You’re not alone, you have people in your life that care and love you 

  • Spend time with your grandparents because if you don’t when you get older your going to regret not spending that quality time that you still have to make memories

  • Start including your cousins and brother in your life, friends may come and go but their always going to be around to support you

  • It’s never too early to start journaling about your day. When you get older it’s going to be nice to read and remember what you did during your childhood

If I grew up with the knowledge, experience and the skills that I have now. There is no doubt that my life would’ve turned out differently. At the same time I’m grateful that I grew up the way that I did because it made me the kind of person I am today. I was able to meet the most amazing people in my life with the choices that I made. If I made any other choices I probably wouldn’t have gotten the opportunity to experience the friendships and the unforgettable memories I have made. We all have one life and I believe everything happens for a reason. We may have regrets and wish that it could’ve turned out differently but instead of dwelling on the past use it as a learning experience. It’s the only way to grow by getting a new perspective on your current situation. I want to end this entry by asking a question. If you had the opportunity to go back in time and give your younger self advice, what advice would you give them?

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